With nearly three quarters of this year under way and Halloween, Christmas and NYE fast approaching, I decided it’s time to sit down and make a plan for the remaining months of 2017. That way I can make the most out of the end of what has been a rollercoaster year. And yes, you read that correctly. Christmas is on its way but don’t panic just yet. Liberty have already opened their Christmas shop, so you can start planning and buying everyone’s presents early to avoid the craziness of last minute shopping. Trust me, it’s not worth the stress, I’ve been there.  Anyway, I thought I’ll create this post, so you know what to expect and also to remind myself what I’m planning on getting up to.

London Fashion Week

The first time I went to fashion week was in 2013 and I was still a student, so imagine the excitement. The season after, I got backstage passes and filmed all the action for my final year project at uni. Don’t ask me how I did it. I literally had to email every single person involved and to hear NO about a hundred times but I got there in the end. So naturally, I relate fashion week to a lot of stress as well as excitement. At this point I’m a bit tired of running around and I’m trying to enjoy the events around fashion week as much as I can. That means mostly from the comfort of my own home but the plan is to get to the venue for a couple of shows and presentations. I’m also curious to check the designer showrooms and vlog some of the action.

Establish a blog aesthetic

I started this blog at the beginning of the year and my plan was to get as much varied content on the topics of beauty, fashion, lifestyle and travels. It has been a period of adjustment. Now that I sort of got things cracking, I feel like it’s time for me to establish a brand and aesthetic for this baby blog of mine. Which isn’t necessarily an easy thing. I find myself looking at other blogs and trying to go down paths that have been long established. Then I realise, this is not me. Sometimes I want things to happen the easy way like “That’s going to be my logo, here’s what my business cards will look like, I want to shoot with this particular photographer because I saw another blogger working with them and the photos looked great.” But that’s not always how things turn out. So instead of trying too hard to fit in and make myself look like this blogger or that blogger, I look at those girls who are different and I ask myself what is it about this person that I like and how can I translate it into my own vision without stealing someone’s intellectual property.

Focus on quality

I’m planning to focus on the quality of work I produce rather than the quantity for two reasons. First, I want to keep my content as authentic and relatable as I possibly can. Second, I’ve never seen myself as one of those bloggers who post every day. Not because I have nothing to say. Trust me, there’s folders and folders of work on my laptop waiting to be edited and published but there’s a right moment for every single piece. Better quality content also means better photographer. I started working with Becky, who studied fashion photography and is also a wedding photographer and loves it. We shot a look on Sunday which I will publish sometime this week and you’ll be seeing more of her work on the blog in the near future. You can also check her Facebook in the meantime.

Travel

I feel like I didn’t do enough travelling this year even though I’ve been to a few places. I wanted to explore a more exotic destination so we’re currently looking at the options and hopefully I’ll have some sort of idea in the next couple of weeks. If that doesn’t happen by the end of this year, there’s plenty of nice places in Europe that I still haven’t visited. If you want to recommend a place that is still warm in October and is within a 3-4 hour flight from the UK, you’re more than welcome. There’s a post coming soon on how to save on travelling so you can either travel more or have more spending money when you’re on a trip. Stay tuned!

Making my room cosy for the new season

In preparation for the season ahead, I decided to give my room a little makeover. As you probably know already, pink is my favourite colour. A little pink can go a loooong way – it brightens up a space, it’s uplifting and it’s super calming, which is ideal for a bedroom. There is still some bits and pieces that I need to add, so this will be work in progress for the next month or so. Whilst I was shopping and redecorating my room, I stumbled upon items that I didn’t necessarily need until I saw them. Examples include this pink faux fur rug which is incredibly soft and this pineapple that I’m just obsessed with. If you too are looking to give your room an update, I’ve linked some options below so you can have a browse and fall in love. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

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We all have that one person in our lives whose confidence is just so damn out of this world. Their presence can be felt the minute they walk in the room. Their attitude is what society refers to as ‘goals’ and they conquer the day like it’s nobody’s business. If you want to know how to be that person, I can’t tell you. But below you can find some of the ways that always help me when I’m in need of a little confidence boost.

Stay out of your comfort zone

A comfort zone is that invisible line we draw around ourselves. Nobody moves, nobody gets hurt. At first it doesn’t feel right. The more you stay within your comfort zone though, the more you feel like it’s okay to have an average life. Have no expectations and you won’t be disappointed, right? As happy as you can be in your comfort zone, that’s not where you’re meant to be. At least not yet. Fear can be a good thing when it makes us aware of danger and keeps us safe. But not everything we fear is actually harmful for us. Sometimes, the things we’re afraid of, end up being the most eye-opening experiences. Best-selling author and podcaster Tim Ferriss recommends incorporating as many challenging activities in your daily life as you can. I always find it hard to start a conversation with a stranger. But the satisfaction I get whenever I do, and that stranger turns out to be an interesting human being, just makes it all worth it.

Try power dressing

When I say power dressing, this image of Miranda (The Devil Wears Prada) wearing a high waisted skirt, crisp white shirt and a tailored blazer pops into my head. Let’s just be honest here, you learned a lot about confidence when you saw that film as a teenager. We’ve all been there. In the late 70s and early 80s, power dressing was adopted by women who wanted to establish their authority and project an image of efficiency. If they wanted to be taken seriously, they had to fit in a world strictly dominated by men. W Magazine have this brilliant piece on power dressing for 2017, so have a read. I find that even the tiniest change like wearing heels to work for a day makes such a difference. It’s time to unleash your inner Miranda.

 

Find yourself a girl squad

Call them your clique, crew, gang, whatever. Having your girls by your side to remind you how beautiful, intelligent and strong you are is the ultimate dream.  The amount of #girlpower I see in media and life in general, just makes me feel proud I was born in this age! Moving from a ‘Mean Girls’ era to a ride or die relationship with your BFF’s is just what we all need. Finding yourself a support team to lean on can be a huge confidence boost. I can’t even count the times I’ve been crying on my bestie’s shoulder for hours until we get to that point when she reaches to get me a lipstick from her bag and tells me to pull myself together. That’s exactly what you need when you find yourself in a difficult situation, isn’t it?

Book a flight

Sometimes, we need to step aside from a situation, in order to see things from a new perspective. I’m just making excuses to book my next trip, really. As if I need one. Travelling allows you to be in control and choose your own path. It’s the only time when your boss is not around (unless you’re on a business trip) and you’re completely free to do whatever feels right at any given moment. When travelling, we find ourselves in situations where we have to overcome language barriers, get a taxi without being ripped off, eat something of a questionable origin or even survive without wi-fi for a couple of hours. The latter being the hardest one to cope with. Most of the time we don’t even realise how travelling helps us confront our weaknesses and challenge ourselves in a productive way. If that’s not the kind of confidence boost you need, I don’t know what is. Have you started looking at flights already?

I would love to hear what helps you build your confidence the most?

Yours

Michelle x

 

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Hello world and welcome to this special little project of mine!

I wanted to start this blog for a while now and always seemed to have an excuse to postpone things a little longer. The moment never seemed to be right and the easiest thing was to leave things for tomorrow. And tomorrow wasn’t coming. So I decided to make it TODAY.

I don’t think there is a better time to start than the present moment. Whatever it is you want to do in your life, do it NOW. Whatever you need, to get where you want to be, just get it. Start taking baby steps but do it today. Never leave things for tomorrow.

I’m also a firm believer in doing things with true passion! When you’re passionate about what you do, your hard work and commitment pay off. And to be able to share your passion with other people is one of the greatest things of our time.

So let me tell you a bit about who I am…

I started blogging over 3 years ago while studying journalism at university but as some of you know, student life can get a bit overwhelming. There are all sorts of different projects you want to be part of and that makes it harder to decide what’s important and leave what’s not to one side. I worked with magazines both abroad and in the UK, helped a couple of friends out with their blogs and eventually moved to London and started working full time which took over my entire life and all these fun little activities were left behind.

I kept one thing going throughout the entire time though – my Instagram account. And this is where I was able to express my creativity and share exciting things that were happening with my life. We started travelling a lot with my boyfriend and I kept thinking I need a platform to share all the exciting news and show all the great places that we visit and the idea of that just kept me going. Until one day I did a bit of research, registered my domain, bought a pipdig template and here I am, sharing my passion with the world one little note at a time. Well, this one isn’t exactly little but I promise to keep it short and sweet, so you can enjoy not having to read an entire essay.

I hope you like the idea of being part of my adventure. If you wish to receive notifications of my new posts you can subscribe via the form on my landing page and also follow me on social media via the links below.

Michelle x

P.S. Please forgive me if I do things wrong. I’m still new to this.

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